... or at least so says some of my opponents after i use a kit. Its actually happens quite often. Kits are part of the strategy of it all... am i not mistaken? I have noticed that some players who don't use kits could be better players and have higher scores if they would, so i cant really understand why anyone would not want to use kits. Please explain that to me.

If money is there issue, i find i make more money fighting then i spend in buying kits, so to me that's not really an issue or excuse.

I just find it amusing to be called a cheater for using kits... its part of the game and part of what makes each Mech and player unique in the strategy of it all.

Don't worry when people call you a cheater for using a kit. It's part of the game for a reason and normally when both players use kits battles get a lot more interesting

Those players who don't use kits though, see it as a waste of money. When I grind for parts to my mech, I tend not to use kits and just accept defeat when I do lose. Just ignore those players that see it as cheating though xD

Can the developers tweak resistance kits? A torso, for example, have a MAX number of resistance it can have. So when you use a resistance kit, it won't GO past that limit. I think this is the real issue right now, because sometimes my drones deal 1 damage(pathetically) and my main weapons become toy guns just to a single res. kit + a multi-resistance module.

Have you heard of weapons "Resistance Drainer", "Grenade Launcher", "A-Ray", "B-Ray" and "X-Ray"?
All of these weapons can be used to decrease the opponents's resistance by a certain amount, then you can deal more damage with other weapons. The resistances can even go negative with these weapons. That's why there are those kits and they offer a lot of resistance when used. At times, it even may not be enough to counter the resistance decreasing weapons. I mean when one heavily uses those weapons, the opponent's resistance can go negative despite the +25 from the kit. So go get some of these weapons and see your other weapons and drone deal even more damage than before.