Well theres this girl I have known and liked/loved since 7th grade. We are late in our freshman year now and just a few months ago she told me she liked me, I got my hopes up and I was super excited. This girl I have liked and dream-pt about since 7th grade said she liked me! Well we started texting a lot and talking on the phone at night and then she stopped talking to me, I don't think I did anything in particular that turned her off but Im not positive. a few days later her FB status changed to "In a relationship" with some kid from her new school. They broke up recently. Well a few days ago (Thursday) someone spread a rumor that she had sex with someone High schooll drama) and she said that she didn't and I told her that she shouldn't until she finds that right person (dumb comment I know) and then she said That'ss why I think im ready" and I said" Why do you say that?" she said "I found someone"Immediatelyy my heart sank. I thought I was gonna die but I gathered some courage and asked "Who is that?:P " and she responded with a picture of a bubble letter "You" on a mirror and I was like :O

Anyways, I think I fell for it again, she stopped talking to me and shes in Utah with her Ex bf that she betrayed me withoriginallyy. Its been three days and no response to any of my messages (I only send 5 overall and one call, I don't wanna seem obsessive although I think I am because I cant stop thinking about her.)

Is she testing me? Is she teasing me? Is she trying to hurt me?

What

The

PG-13

is going on???

Also I forgot to add she is in Utah as a school trip lol...

Well.. You know her better than I do.

Tough questions first: What's your image. Are you a geek in school? What's her image? If she a popular girl? If rumours spread that she had sex blabla I assume she might be.

Also, I find it rather weird that she think she's ready to have sex with you when you haven't even kissed yet, but that might just be me.

I've found that you can ask for assistance in these cases, but in the end you are the one that knows her best. We don't have the information that you do, so..

I am more popular then her, and we did have a first kiss. We've been down this road quite a few times. I'm more popular then her btw, shes not considered weird or anything though. Shes still a virgin (that I know of)

I don't think it was a cruel joke or anything.

1. Was it you or ryan that announced a while ago that he was expecting a baby? I guess it must have been ryan.

2. She's a young woman. She wants attention. She wants to be cool. She wants a trophy boyfriend. All at the same time.

The things she said to you via text/IM? Re-used lines and conversations she has had with others.

If you think she's better than that, then find out. Tell her straight "you should be with me" or something like that. Then ask her if she wants that.

If she responds positively, then great, maybe I was wrong with what I said above and now you have what you want.

If she responds negatively, move on.

If she doesn't give you a clear answer, just have sex with her and then move on.


Stop wasting time and energy sitting thinking about all the possibilities or trying to figure things out. Don't over complicate things.

Harsh but surprisingly helpful. I will do that when she starts talking to me again.

Worstncase scenario is that you lose a friend but you couldngetwhat you have wanted for years.

I would just go for it.


Is the ex more popular than you?

Hes a Jr...

Then go for it

yeah guys are right. looks like you never gather the courage to tell her what you really want. you always listen to her not saying anything on your own. girls love guys who take control. you gave them that feeling of watching our her caring her. may be all this is just to get your attention. ask your self how many time you took her on a date. ?

Wh... what side of the fence are you on rax?