i would really like to chat with you about sm stuff

Sorry, we do not simply connect all the players of the world directly to our development team. You can however try to reach him via PM on the forums as he is a member as well, but from my knowledge, the dev team are not highly active here on the forums, so I cannot tell you how long it will be before they respond, if ever.

However, it would seem like you want to suggest ideas to him from what I gather. If this is the case, your best means to get anything done would be to get the community behind you. If you have ideas, submit them in the SM community suggestions topic and put a vote up. If the community is behind you and it gets accepted, then it will be much more likely to be seen by the development team as a potential change. Unfortunately though, not everything (even if all players want it) can be added. Sometimes it's just not a plausible change from a development standpoint, so please keep this in mind as well.