I think u can understand it clearer if u have her, but realize that she's still in love with her ex, but she doesn't want to leave ur side. U will realize her sad eyes when she saw her ex. U want to let her go but u also don't want to lose her. It's very complicated.

Love is like a dark chocolate. U will see the bitter when u just bite it. But then u will feel the sweetness from the bitter part. Love is like that, u can be ignored, denied, betrayed but when u've found the right girl, u will feel that u don't need anything else in the world.

And AwesomeOne, I don't know wat u may think, but I'm very picky about girlfriend and relationship. I won't go to bar, have a drink with a girl and ask her to become my girlfriend. If I'm not being serious, I won't have girlfriend, I'm willing to become her friend, even best friend. But if I'm not serious, or she isn't. I won't accept it.

To me being somebody partner is not that easy. If u've read my love story u can see that it took me 3 years to make the girl I loved accepted me. For me, the story of an unrequitted love is, though painful, but more romantic than the story of going to the bar, have a chat and bring her home, then break up 3 days later.

I mean, I don't see the reason why u ask her to become ur girlfriend unless u ask for "that". It's not too much different than a normal friend, isn't it?

And AwesomeOne, I don't know wat u may think, but I'm very picky about girlfriend and relationship. I won't go to bar, have a drink with a girl and ask her to become my girlfriend. If I'm not being serious, I won't have girlfriend, I'm willing to become her friend, even best friend. But if I'm not serious, or she isn't. I won't accept it.