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generated-KrEc5gbTAqLC-1608557600 · **Posted:** Sun Apr 29, 2012 10:24 pm

This woman is confused. I suggest you stand up and do something though. You need to take her aside and tell her that "I'm Jake, and I like you a lot, so stop teasing me and let's be together. If you don't want to be with me, then DEFINITELY stop teasing me, and let's just remain friends or just end this stuff right now."

What's going on is she wants drama. So she creates drama, but she needs to learn that drama =/= a good, healthy relationship.

I don't enjoy drama. I don't enjoy "games". I don't enjoy the whole image stuff. I guess it's because I'm a straightforward guy and have always been. One of my ex-girlfriends broke up with me because her friends didn't like me and wanted her to. A few days later she apologized and tried to get back with me. I told her straight up that I was not entering a relationship with her again because she valued her friends over her relationship with me.

^-- That is how serious I am.

It's high school Jake. Take advice from me, I'm a senior right now in High School, about to end. The drama isn't worth it. It's not going to end well, and it's going to end up with you confused. Avoid it, and get whoever you're with to avoid it. If you end up without many relationships in High School it's not a big deal at all. You'll end up with relationships that ACTUALLY MEAN SOMETHING as opposed to BS.

So if this girl doesn't want to drop her drama, move on quickly. If she does, you'll be in for a meaningful relationship.

Hero · **Posted:** Sun Apr 29, 2012 10:29 pm

I'll be honest, losing a "friend" is far better than being in the "friend zone" or just being plain used or led on for weeks, months or even years.

As routh said, give it a shot, worst case, you no longer have her as a friend but any friend who would lead you on, as it seems she is, is no friend at all.

And to add on, Kenny is 110% right.

Diazepam · **Joined:** Tue Dec 14, 2010 10:55 am **Posts:** 1162

Jake wrote:

Diazepam wrote:

1. Was it you or ryan that announced a while ago that he was expecting a baby? I guess it must have been ryan.

2. She's a young woman. She wants attention. She wants to be cool. She wants a trophy boyfriend. All at the same time.

The things she said to you via text/IM? Re-used lines and conversations she has had with others.

If you think she's better than that, then find out. Tell her straight "you should be with me" or something like that. Then ask her if she wants that.

If she responds positively, then great, maybe I was wrong with what I said above and now you have what you want.

If she responds negatively, move on.

If she doesn't give you a clear answer, just have sex with her and then move on.

Stop wasting time and energy sitting thinking about all the possibilities or trying to figure things out. Don't over complicate things.

Harsh but surprisingly helpful. I will do that when she starts talking to me again.

Glad to hear it. Update us on how it goes.

sabnc · **Posted:** Mon Apr 30, 2012 1:49 pm

Is this that girl Ana from your girls 2 thread??

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