Congrats mate! And thanks for sharing Seth.
My girlfriend and I have had several scares but no baby so far. She actually just up and skipped her period one month entirely due to stress. That was rather disconcerting, believe me.

I have a lot of friends with babies or young children and it seems to be a mixed blessing. I have a lot of dreams and goals that are achievable with child in tow, but much more difficult. I'll take what comes my way but I'd like to be selfish as long as I can

Again, hope the best for you!